Friday, January 19, 2007

Hello, Goodbye.... My heart is a bit heavy. I just found out that my friend had to rush back to his native country Uzbekistan. His father passed away a few weeks back & he was extremely saddened. My friend came to America hoping to make some 'real' money & go back to help his family. This was not to be unfortunately. He struggled to find work as his English wasn't so good. I would teach him a little, explaining certain aspects of the language. For example he was confused about words containing 'ough' in them. I would explain to him that English has many exceptions to the rules. What was very cool is that he showed me the Russian alphabet & explained the sounds, etc... Russian has 33 letters as opposed to English which has 26 letters. I have it all written down & find it intriguing. The past month he was alone & very sad. Homesick for his family he left without saying goodbye. I think he was so sad & lonely for his family that he feared his American friends would talk him out of going back home. This is understandable & I don't hold it against him. I hope to see my friend again. He was & is a good person.

4 Comments:

Blogger Vallypee said...

What a poignant story Ed. It is always difficult to make a new start in a new country, especially when you don't know the language...I can relate to that very well! The first year can be utterly miserable.

It sounds as if you were very kind to him though, and I'm sure he will always remember that, even if he doesn't return. Maybe you'll wake up one day to kind an invitation to Uzbekhistan! That would be very cool wouldn't it?

I hope your feelings of loss will slowly ease, Ed, and who knows, maybe your friend will be back. I hope so - for his sake too.

11:01 AM  
Blogger Bonfire Jones said...

Thanks Val, I'm a positive thinker & you may be right about an invite to Uzbekistan. My friend would sometimes mention that I should go there one day.

It's sad, yet I know that he is happier now - being with his family.

So, knowing that makes me feel good.

Thanks for your very kind comment!

Cheers, Ed

3:51 PM  
Blogger Vallypee said...

Have you heard anything from your friend yet, Ed?

3:44 PM  
Blogger Metalchick said...

Hi Ed,
I'm so sorry about your friend's loss. I hope you see your friend again, he sure will remember your kindness.

Take care.

5:09 PM  

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